Posted on December 9, 2014

Bring in the New…

I really set myself up for a fall this year. I expected things to be different, better, easier but in reality it’s been hard, really hard and I have been suffering pretty badly with depression.

I didn’t set any resolutions last year, I knew there was a big change happening and I really believed it would be good for us but things didn’t quite workout like I pictured them too!

Next year I really need (well from now really) to work on my mental health because I cannot carry on feeling like I do. I need a more positive outlook on life. Last week I read this post and it really hit home that I need help!

So my goals for 2015 are…

To be happier
To be more positive
To lose some weight
To get fitter again
To love myself again
To spend more time on me and less online
To give my love and relationships more time
To give my kids more time
Have fun with clothes
Have a wonderful 2015
Get work outside the home
Volunteer and raise money for charity
To have a wonderful family holiday
To make my house more of a home
Be more grateful

I don’t want more money or more things… all I want is to feel happy! Is that too much to ask really? I’ve felt so low this last three months I need to find myself again.

So this is the start of bringing in the new, I simple cannot wait for a fresh New Year.

* This post is written in collaboration with TheCircle

3 Comments

Reply Becky December 15, 2014 at 9:41 am

They are some great resolutions and I see you as such as beautiful smart woman with so much fun and energy in her she s is just waiting to burst right out again my lovely. Keep a focus on your goals and best of luck xxx

Reply Suzanne December 12, 2014 at 8:24 am

So sorry to read this Sonya. Having a positive mental attitude definitely helps but I’m not sure it’s as simple as that is it? Sometimes it’s so difficult. Have you got the medical help you need? I really hope that 2015 brings hope and happiness for you and your family. Put 2014 behind you x

Reply Michelle Reeves (bodfortea) December 10, 2014 at 2:42 pm

I’m so sorry you’ve been feeling so low. But good for you for making these resolutions – it really is the first step to having a more positive outlook. Like you I want to be more grateful for all the wonderful things and people in my life and while I don’t tend to set resolutions I will be giving myself a good talking to! x